Lessons Taught by Cows

I struggled to pick a topic to write for this guest blog post. There are so many different directions I could go, being a wife, mother and dairy farmer. A friend asked me, “What do you want people to know about dairy farming?” I want people to know that while dairy farming is a business, and I totally have a business mindset, the cows are still an important part of our family. I was clearly reminded of this connection when I saw a picture of Reese Burdette (8) with her favorite cow, Pantene at Johns Hopkins, where Reese has been a patient at the hospital for 13 months now. Reese has shown Pantene at fairs since she was a calf. Reese had not seen Pantene since her accident. The smile on Reese’s face as she held Pantene was priceless. It was easy to see that both Reese and Pantene were thrilled to be back together, and it is a true testament of the bond between cows and their caretakers.

Cows teach us many things that are passed on through the generations carrying on the dairy farming tradition. This is seen on our dairy farm, passed down from our parents and grandparents and now to our children. At a very young age, each of our kids learned that their lives have purpose and meaning. We have a small farm and do all of our own work, 24/7, 365 days a year. The kids were never too little to know that they could be helpful and responsible by helping take care of the cows. They are so proud of the jobs they do, whether its feeding calves, bedding stalls or stopping to give a cow a much deserved love. Each of the kids have their favorite cow or cows. They show them at fairs and work very hard with them by teaching them how to lead like a lady. Working one on one with their animal develops a bond, builds confidence and a sense of trust for both the child and cow. It takes a lot of practice, patience and perseverance. These qualities are used in my children’s and my own every day life.
It is a joy to watch my children learn from and love the cows like I did growing up. No matter what path my children take, they will have learned valuable life lessons from their beloved cows.

Logan, Harper and Tatum – photo credit Cowsmo

Photo Credit Jersey Journal

Freynie Lancaster and her husband Ryan own and operate Royalty Ridge. They focus on registered Jerseys that are shown nationally and market their cattle’s genetics worldwide. They have a son, Logan (9) and two daughters, Tatum(7) and Harper (3).

Freynie is yet another amazing dairy mama that I greatly admire! The lessons that our kids learn growing up on a farm will truly benefit them for a lifetime, whether they chose this lifestyle or not. The Lancaster’s are not only raising top notch children, but their Jersey herd is admired across the world. While they aren’t Guernseys 😉 there is no denying the quality of the cows. I think it comes from all the love these lucky Ladies of Royalty Ridge receive!

I hope you’ve enjoyed the kick off of Mama Honesty featuring some very awesome dairy farm women in my life! I hope you’ll continue to follow along!